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Live Free or Drive Flat

This blog is starting to look suspiciously like a love letter to New Hampshire—with a few passive-aggressive footnotes about the weather. It’s a far cry from other places I’ve lived: Houston, Phoenix, Santa Monica, San Francisco, London, Boston… and Anchorage (which, to be fair, is the closest match—minus the volcanic ash, wandering moose, salmon runs, and the deeply questionable concept of a midnight-sun tee time at 2:00 a.m.). March in New Hampshire means one thing: Town Meeting . For the uninitiated, this is a centuries-old New England tradition where residents gather to govern themselves directly. Yes, really. No filters, no middlemen—just your neighbors, a microphone, and a strong opinion. I used to think Texas politics had a flair for the dramatic. Then I attended Town Meeting. Picture a room full of people, with seriously opposing viewpoints, debating municipal budgets and whether the town should build much-needed infrastructure (tax funding required). Now add just enough unpr...
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The Week the House Became One

A lot has happened since the last blog post —  including an ambulance ride in a snowy whiteout. (You know, the kind where the road disappears and everyone pretends they can still see the lane lines.) Also there were a couple of nights in the hospital. That particular adventure, I’m happy to report, had a good ending. Whew. Meanwhile winter is beginning to loosen its grip. We are solidly in double digit temps, and the days are warming up. And here’s something I never thought I’d say in my entire New England life: I am thrilled to be moving into mud season. Mud! Slush! Puddles! Bring it on. After months of frozen everything, a little squish underfoot feels downright festive. And the house?   Well friends and neighbors, I do believe the house has officially had its aha! moment. Thanks to Dan the Man and his fearless Marlborough Men brigade, the old cottage and the new addition are no longer awkward acquaintances politely nodding across a structural divide. They are...

The Extreme Sport of Winter Construction

Between decorating decisions, connecting with family, doom-scrolling eye-popping headlines, and temperatures that make you seriously question past life choices, this month’s update qualifies as a modest triumph: I’m here, the house still exists, and progress—while slow—is real. A major shout-out to Dan the Man , who has once again earned the nickname Dad. At this point it feels less like a nickname and more like an inherited title. Just for fun:   What do you call a dad with three children? (drum roll please .....)  Outnumbered    (Ka-boom!) I haven’t posted much because it’s been that kind of quiet—the kind caused by weather so cold it shuts down both construction and conversation. We’ve had a brutal cold snap, ridiculous snow, and evening temperatures hovering below 0°F for much of the last two weeks. Very cold indeed. ICE'd out, too.  Or, as a 17th-century Yorkshire expression puts it: colder than a witch’s teat . A phrase best left unexplored in poli...